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I also have a dream

August 28th 1963 saw Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. give arguably one of the greatest speeches ever made. I’ve never written an article around a video and I don’t know why I’m drawn to do that today.

I just enjoy going with my instinct to see where it leads!

It sends shivers down my spine whenever I hear it, even though I wasn’t born when he gave it. I was born 75 days later (11 days before one of the other great events that year, the murder of JFK).

In many ways this blog represents my own ‘I Have A Dream Speech’.

If you were giving this today, what would your ‘I Have A Dream’ speech dream be about?

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Power Of Beliefs

Often it happens I find myself getting attached to doing things a certain way.

The U.S. standard railroad gauge (distance between the rails) is four feet, eight and a half inches. That’s an exceedingly odd number.

We all have our own quirks

Most of the time there’s no problem with that and I can happily keep my quirky habits without interfering with anyone else. I can organise the kitchen drawer a certain way, carry out my bathroom routine in a particular order, start with my least favourite food on the plate and leave the best until last, work while sitting on the most uncomfortable seat in the apartment, etc. etc..

In fact, most of the time I’m blissfully unaware that my quirks could seem a little odd to other people.

I don’t live in isolation, though, and sometimes my idiosyncracies clash with those of others. In ‘Being right‘ I recounted a story from my first marriage about a huge fight we had about the correct way to cut potatoes for boiling.

And I mean HUGE! Shouting, screaming and even .. finger pointing!

I was adamant that potatoes have to be cut across the short cross-section. My wife was equally adamant they are cut across the long section.

Crazy? Yes, but entirely true.

Where do our beliefs come from?

Why was that gauge used? Because that’s the way they built them in England, and English expatriates built the U.S. railroads. Why did the English people build them like that? Because the first rail lines were built by the same people who built the pre-railroad tramways, and that’s the gauge they used.

Many beliefs (and the associated practices) are developed early on in life at home, being brought by our parents from their homes, brought by their parents … Generation after generation passing down whole belief systems. Of course, they change over time as new ones are needed. Sometimes they may be challenged and collapse, to replaced by others. They transform with changing circumstances.

Most beliefs are well rooted in the past, so can be very slow and stubborn to shift and so often lag behind our current realities.

A brief history of the Peatey Potato Law

Why did they use that gauge then? Because the people who built the tramways used the same jigs and tools that they used for building wagons, which used that wheel spacing.

The early historical records of the Peatey family are quite sketchy on potato cutting practices.

There are several references in early folk-lore to large numbers of Peateys needing to be fed very quickly. Some experts argue this led to the short-section-cut, pointing to the fact that, cutting this way, saves around 2 milliseconds per vegetable.

An etching (above) dated 1311 appears to show two members of the Peatey family cutting potatoes across the short section, though the authenticity of the engraving is questioned by several prominent legume historians.

Why did the wagons use that odd wheel spacing? Well, if they tried to use any other spacing the wagons would break on some of the old, long-distance roads, because that’s the spacing of the old wheel ruts.

The earliest reliable recorded mention of the cut, in its modern form, is in the county annals of 1574 where the practice was already well established. In 1728 the ‘Peatey Potato Act’ was passed by Parliament and quickly became known as the PP Law. The Act is still on the statute books and is recognised as one of the oldest Acts of Parliament still in force.

So who built these old rutted roads? The first long-distance roads in Europe were built by Imperial Rome for the benefit of its legions. The roads have been used ever since.

My point is practical necessity becomes habit and habits and practices turn into laws and belief systems.

The power of beliefs

And the ruts? Roman war chariots made the initial ruts, which everyone else had to match for fear of destroying their wagons. Since the chariots were made for or by Imperial Rome, they were all alike in the matter of wheel spacing. Thus, the standard U.S. railroad gauge of four feet, eight and a half inches derives from the specification for an Imperial Roman army war chariot – the width of the back ends of two warhorses.

I believed this was the right, and only, way to cut potatoes.

Crazy as it now sounds, when faced with the alternative offered by my ex-wife, I saw a personal attack on my belief system. I felt a strong urge to quash the potato heresy and my wife with it. It was so strong, I could barely contain my desire to cause physical harm to her (fortunately, I did contain it).

And yes, I agree it is TOTALLY insane and I was not in my right mind.

Who in their right mind believes something to the extent they cannot allow for any other possibility?

Who in their right mind believes something to the point they are prepared to hurt (or kill) someone thinking differently?

Ask yourself this though …

… is there really such a big difference between the ‘Peatey Potato Law’ and all the other beliefs lurking in the roots of the World’s violence?

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6 reasons eating vegetarian food is best

I’d been playing with the idea of only eating vegetarian food for some time but the enjoyment of flesh eating was just too strong.

4 months ago, if I’d been faced with this array of meat sticks, I’d have been salivating and fighting to get my teeth sunk in. Now I look at the picture and just feel nauseous.

What happened to me?

I really don’t know how it happened but I do know I stopped eating meat in the middle of January.

I started the year with a week long Zen retreat in the Netherlands where the food was entirely vegetarian. It was good, wholesome food, lovingly prepared and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I haven’t had any desire to eat meat since coming back. In fact, the opposite; I simply haven’t been able to entertain the idea of putting dead animal parts in my mouth.

There was no moral imperative, no health reason, no nonviolent conviction.

I’d like to claim it was an example of my superior will-power finally overcoming my resistance, but that’s not the truth.

I suspect brain-washing!

Do yourself a favour – switch to vegetarian food!

After 3 months without meat I’ve noticed some surprising things; advantages I’d not considered  before.

I’m not in the business of persuading people to change. I prefer to tell my own experience and trust everyone to make their own choices in life. My experience would not, of course, be the same as yours. In any case I’ve been a meat eater for 45 years with no problem, so if you want to carry on, all credit to you.

So these are some of the things I noticed:

1     Getting more done

I need, on average, one sleep cycle less than I did on a meat diet – about 90 minutes. That’s an extra 23 days to spend annually doing fun stuff, meaningful stuff or just to take an extra long breakfast (vegetarian of course). That’s a lot of gained time! Typically I wake up at 6.00am with no assistance from alarms or external aids.

What would you do with an extra 23 days of waking time every year?

2     More money

I spend less on food.

Vegetables, rice, pulses, pasta and most of the other stuff I buy are cheaper than meat. I eat out more than I should and in restaurants the vegetarian options are cheaper 95% of the time. I haven’t tracked exact numbers (I know I used to be an accountant, but that’s going too far). A very rough estimate is that I save around €15 ($20) a week, which is €780 ($1,040) a year – more during festive holidays!

What would you do with an extra €780 a year?

3     Faster decision making

I eat out quite a lot, mainly from laziness and a lack of enjoyment in day to day cooking. Most meaty eateries have a limited selection of veggie options so choosing what to eat is much faster. The downside is I miss out on variety but the upside is I’ve got more time for chatting.

This might not seem like a big advantage, but personally I never much enjoyed having to choose from a range of delicious sounding meals. I always thought I was missing out on what I didn’t choose and other people always made better choices than I did.

Now I don’t even look at the meat pages in a menu.

4     Better health

My digestion system is cleaner and I feel better physically.

I don’t buy much organic food mainly, for practical reasons, so I do still put chemicals in my body from mass produced veggies. I’m pretty sure, however, that the amount and harmfulness is less than with meat.

5   Moral superiority

I’ve included this point in the interest of honesty, and I’m not at all proud of it.

I have an ego. There, I’ve admitted it.

Becoming vegetarian might not feed my body with everything it needs (I’ve not paid much attention to the nutrition side yet) but it sure does feed my ego. I (as in my ego!) have this idea that being vegetarian is spiritually and morally superior.

Of course, it’s complete bullshit, but I can think of more damaging ways to massage my ego!

There’s also the environmental benefits as apparently meat production is a huge contributor to greenhouse gasses (see this article). Not sure if my ego is getting the massage or my higher self, but it has a feeling of ‘rightness’ about it that eating meat never gave me.

6     Exploring new taste sensations

I’ve been a meat eater for 45 years. I said that already, didn’t I?

For the first half my life I’ve tasted pretty much all the usual meats on offer plus some strange ones (crocodile, tapir, bear). I reckon I’ve worked my way through a fair selection of the meat dishes known to mankind. Some I like and some I even adore.

But there’s a time to stay and a time to move on and there’s a whole new world opening in front of me exploring creative ways to cook veggies and other stuff.

Any other benefits you would add to this list?

And finally …

I’ve been looking for an opportunity to include somewhere a delicious recipe from my dear friend Nadia , over at Happy Lotus. I don’t imagine a better opportunity so I present you with (fanfare!) …

Vegan Bigos

2600881002_3c54671a56This an adaptation of a traditional Polish dish, not usually associated with a vegetarian diet. Nadia insisted I give credit to her husband for the recipe so if you do try it, drop over to her site to say ‘thanks’. Even if you don’t get your apron out and start splashing sauerkraut around, still take a look over there – it’s a great site!

For a serving of 2:

  • 1 jar of Sauerkraut (about 1L or 1 Kg)
  • few Bay Leaves – larger ones are easier to pick out after cooking
  • Italian Seasoning mix (tablespoon)
  • Marjoram (tablespoon)
  • Vegan Hotdogs or Sausages (about 0,5 kg, cut up into 2cm long pieces)
  • Shittake Mushrooms – but can be any kind (couple handfuls if dry or about double that if fresh – soak dry ones in water for about 15 minutes to make them soft)
  • Black Pepper – freshly ground has best flavour (to your taste)
  1. Put the Sauerkraut, Bay Leaves, Italian Seasoning, Marjoram and Black Pepper into a medium or large pot and depending on how wet it is, you may need to add a bit of water (1 cup should do for now). Stir around gently so that the Bay Leaves don’t break up.
  2. Cover the pot and keep it at a low boiling point. Keep an eye on it so that it doesn’t stick to the bottom of the pot and add little water if needed. Stir every few minutes.
  3. While the Sauerkraut is on the stove, cut up the Vegan Hotdogs / Sausages and Mushrooms.
  4. When the Sauerkraut has been on the stove for about 15 minutes, stir in the cut up bits, cover the pot and cook about 10 more minutes on medium, stirring every couple minutes.

NOTES:

Try to get the most simple Sauerkraut you can find – the one we use only contains cabbage and salt with no other ingredients like vinegar etc … If you don’t want a lot of salt, the Sauerkraut can be rinsed in a colander before cooking. Also, this recipe assumes that the Vegan Hotdogs or Sausages are pre-cooked and not frozen. Pick out the Bay Leaves before enjoying :)

Additional suggestion from me (Ian) – you can consider adding around 8 roughly chopped dried plums (take out the stones before chopping!) and half a glass of red wine.

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The secret of love, life and being happy

Guest post

First up, I have a guest post for Lea over at Ocean of Perspectives and one I’m especially pleased with.

Here’s an extract in a not-so-subtle attempt to whet your appetite for more:

Playing our own tune

“Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.”

Gandhi

This quote sums up my approach to life. My aspired approach to life, that is.

I’ve still got some way to go as the truth is, at the age of 45, I’m still unlearning a lot of accumulated rubbish from my first 35 years.

This stuff is not deep, painful, unusual or traumatic. Sometimes, I think it might be easier to deal with if it was. It’s all regular, everyday beliefs about how the world, society and I function. There’s nothing extreme or extraordinary there.

For example, I believed that science, logic and rationality rule. That mind and thought are King! I imagined once I left college I would be fully equipped to deal with the world. I knew how the world worked.

I was brought up on a middle-class path of a steady job, slow but regular promotion, saving for retirement, marrying my childhood sweetheart and buying a small house and car (big enough for a family). It was a well worn path trod by my parents, their parents before them and pretty much everyone I knew.

Choosing another way never entered my head.

“Live as if you have many more years ahead of you. Learn to pass exams and then forget it all.”

Peatey

In 2001, I was presented with an incredibly simple idea that changed my life.

If you want to find out the secret of love, life and being happy (ha!) then head over to Lea to read the rest of the article.

But before you do that, you might just want to stay here for a few minutes more to ..

… leave a comment?

Last time I did a guest post I closed comments.

With hindsight I regret that, because I missed the connection with you all. So I’m leaving comments open today and I’d love it if you dropped by and made your presence known.

The only condition is you tell us all your secret to love, life and being happy.

No pressure, then!

Just make it good!

If you’re a regular reader and too shy to have left a comment yet, this would be the perfect chance to say ‘Hi’.

I don’t bite and the last guest post I wrote only 15 people looked at the parallel post here (thanks Mum!) so no-one will read your comment except me.

I promise!

If you don’t want to leave a comment then you could pick up a bit of …

… shared wisdom

I’ve had a busy week connecting up with a few wise souls out there generously giving away the fruits of their life’s harvest by writing about them.

There’s absolutely no point in discovering great articles, amazing sites and awesome people without sharing them with the whole world. Here are some of the people and sites I’ve had the honour to connect to this week, and I highly encourage you to give them a moment of your busy schedule as they are all worth following:

Michael at Love to Spare

Nadia at Happy Lotus

Lisis at Quest For Balance

David at Raptitude

Roger at A Content Life

Jay at Porsidan

Gwynn and Sherri at Serene Journey

That’s all for today.

See you in a couple of days!

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Balancing on top of the world

Often I catch myself saying that I’d like more balance in my life.

A bit more of this, a bit less of that.

Sometimes I want to be more rooted and not so much moving from place to place. At other times I look for more time for writing and not so much wasted time. Or I could do with more fee earning work and less time invested in developing a peaceful future.

Of course, in other periods all these are turned exactly in the opposite direction.

There always seems to be some aspect of my life where I’m striving for balance.

I saw ‘Man On Wire’ the other evening.

For those who don’t know, it’s a wonderful documentary about a Frenchman, Philippe Petit. He’s the guy in the picture above, who, in 1974 walked across a high-wire strung between the twin towers of the World Trade Center. If you doubt the picture to be authentic, just check out those awesome flares!  Only an insanely passionate person would even consider tightrope walking between the towers in those trousers!

Watching this film I realised I’ve been missing the point about balance!

To balance

Balance is not something I achieve but something I do.

Life is dynamic, it moves, it flows and when I balance (verb) I apply some control over that movement through life.

I can never reach a ‘balance’ as that implies no movement, no dynamism – no life.

The high-wire walker is always ‘off balance’.

His art and his skill is constantly to sense when he’s moved away from his centre of gravity and with small flexes of his muscles adjust his position. With those fine adjustments he’s always moving slightly from one side to the other. Over and over he repeats these sideways adjustments as he slowly, but surely moves forward.

He’s never stable but always ‘off-balance’. He knows that if he moves too far away from the centre he risks being unable to bring himself back. And that means certain death.

The high wire of life

Isn’t life similar to walking a high-wire?

We choose the rope we walk and how risky we want to live by the height of the rope and the conditions.

After our initial first steps on the wire we move inexorably forward from birth to death.

We may change speed, we may rest a while, but we will always get to the other side.

As we move forward, we notice when we’ve moved away from our path and we adjust and realign ourselves.

We live with the risk that we fail to sense when we’re off track. Maybe that happens when we’re so focussed on controlling the forward movement we forget  the sideways move. Or maybe it happens when we look down and take attention away from our own path. Or perhaps we lose our footing because we lose concentration, get tired or bored.

Fortunately, falling off the high-wire of life is rarely fatal, but a chance to check if we’re on the right path before we get back on again.

* Before anyone accuses me of ‘sexism’ … I fully appreciate that it’s equally possible that the high-wire walker might be female. Really I do! Philippe is a guy, though, and for purposes of writing style I chose to stay with that. The next time I use a high-wire walker as an example I’ll be sure to refer to her as female. I promise! Ok?
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